Make Yourself' Easier To Lift' 10 Important Strategies

Successful people follow a plan for liking people. Although those who reach the top seldom discuss their techniques for thinking right towards people you would be surprised how many have a clear, definite even written plan.We are lifted to higher levels by those who know us as lively, personable individuals. Every new friend you make lifts you a little higher and being likeable makes you far easier to lift.

10 important strategies to make yourself 'easier to lift'

Remember Peoples Names And Small Details About Them!

People love to hear their names and asking a question about their life shows you have an interest in them on a personal level. We often have a tendency to see people in their role and forget that there is a person beyond the role. Simply remember what it is that makes each person special and so

much more than what they do.

Be a comfortable old kind of hat individual.

Acquire the quality of relaxed easy-going so that things don't ruffle you.Be self-deprecating and disarming. Be willing to poke fun at yourself from time to time.

Acquire the quality of relaxed easy-going so that things don't ruffle you.

Make your environment comfortable and informal so that people feel at ease when they are in your company.

Never give the impression that you know it all.

Big people monopolize listening. Small people monopolize talking.Let Other People Talk! Conversation needs to be two sided totake place.Let the other person do most of the talking.Remain attentive and interested in what the person has to say. Listen! God gave us two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.Really listen to what the other person is telling you. When he or she is talking,give direct eye contact and don't think of how you are going to respond. Process what they are saying before you formulate your answers. Listen when people talk but instead of thinking about what they will say next and miss most of what that person said.

Cultivate the quality of being interesting so people will get something of value from their association with you.

Be aware of the latest trends and news items.Acquire views of a wide range of subjects rather than maintaining a narrow focus based around your own particular role in life.Associate with a wide spectrum of people from different walks of life.

Get those scratchy elements out of your personality.

Have you ever met a hot head, angry, bitter person that you love to be around? Your temperament and how you handle yourself in all situations can determine your "cool" factor.

Sincerely attempt to heal, every misunderstanding you have had or now have.

Drain off your grievances. What goes around comes around.Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and dignity.
This applies in front of them and behind their back. Don't
get caught up in viscous gossip.

Practice liking people until you do so genuinely.

The old saying is 'if you look for the bad in people you will surely find it' rings true. Always look for something to like and you will never be short of friends.At the same time if you want to be upbeat, positive, and confident, don't hang around with petty, nasty, complaining,whining people.They will bring you down if you let them, or
perhaps you will become one of them. Life is too short to be
pessimistic. Choose people who laugh, have goals and objectives, and are interested in living life to the fullest.

Never miss an opportunity to congratulate someone else's achievements or express sorrow or disappointment at their failures.

Caring and compassionate people always make a difference in an otherwise selfish world.

Give spiritual strength to people and they will give genuine
affection to you.

Success depends on the support of other people. Practice
these strategies so that you will be easier to lift.

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